Do you know that every single time I get stuck in something, I try to find some different books on the subject to learn from others? I think that’s what makes books so amazing – there are thousands of books on all the different subjects that you can think of and any time you are stuck, you can just pick up a book, download that person’s knowledge (sometimes that knowledge has been accumulated over years or decades of experience) and use that to get yourself out of the situation.

Which is how I got into some of Richard Templar’s books. Richard Templar has written a series of books which I found quite easy to read – I think I first noticed his books at Costco and decided to take a chance on a few of them – he has written books called “The Rules of Life, The Rules of Work and the book that I’m going to share what I’ve learned from in this post is called The Rules of Wealth”.

The book covers a few categories of rules:

  • Thinking wealthy and getting into the wealth mindset
  • Becoming wealthy
  • Getting even wealthier
  • Staying wealthy
  • Sharing your wealth

While a lot of these can be thought of as common sense depending on your financial literacy, I still learned a lot from the different rules – here’s what I learned:

Most people are way too lazy to be wealthy

Sometimes I feel this way – waking up early, sleeping late just to work on my book or the next big idea I have. But it’s good to get a slap in the face realizing that you won’t get wealthy just because you want to be, you have to work on your idea, in fact, you have to work hard even when no progress is seemingly made because even though many successful entrepreneurs have made it seem like they were an overnight success, they actually worked hard day and night to get their business off the ground.

Know how the wealthy think (and emulate them)

How do the wealthy think? A good book on this is The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas Stanley or Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T Harv Eker. Who in your circle of friends is wealthiest? What kind of things are they doing? What type of books do they read? Scour the internet for interviews of wealthy people. I’m not saying go out immediately and do exactly as they do but dive into their mindset and try to derive insights from how they think about things (e.g., wealthy people like to buy cars that are reliable and have low maintenance – why?)

You have to work hard to get rich enough not to have to work hard

You can’t just get rich enough not to have to work hard. You have to put in the hours first. This means starting early in the morning, working late at night, not taking long food breaks, not watching TV, not wasting time, to mention a few things. As Richard says, you need to work like you’ve never worked before. You also have to enjoy it. There has to be some sort of motivation for you.

Learn how to sell (or as Richard calls it “the art of deal making”)

Richard shares the story of Kyle MacDonald who traded away a single red paperclip to a house in the space of nine months. From Kyle’s story, here are some of the lessons you can take away:

  • Never say you do not have anything to start with (Kyle didn’t)
  • Always be open to opportunities
  • Be adaptable and flexible
  • Have a goal
  • Work diligently
  • Network like mad
  • Take advantage of free publicity (like newsletters that go out to your office showing consultants)

Think about what you have that others might want and how you can trade possessions, skills or your knowledge for something that you need in return. And like Kyle, maybe what you get in return is not something you need – how can you trade that again for something else that you might want (or on and on)?

Real wealth comes from deals, not fees

One of the few rules that I took away going “huh!” – you probably will not get rich from your day job so you will have to learn how to start buying and selling if you are going to become a millionaire. Take a look at some of the highest paid day jobs out there: lawyers and doctors – some of them are very well off I’ll give you that but they probably are not rich unless they are doing something else (maybe they own the firm or they own the clinic – in which case they are buying and selling something other than their time).

Think about what you can buy and sell (or with info products, think about what people would be wiling to pay you for).

Work as if you did not need the money

“If people think that you need the money it gives them power over you and that makes you insecure”. A great quote – and something that I realized subconsciously when evaluating different job offers that I have received or doing side hustle work. It’s important to work as if you did not need the money because you are going to work much differently than if you work because you DID need the money.

Get some money mentors

This is great advice – find people that you consider to be wealthy and invite them out to coffee to understand the actions they took to become wealthy. You don’t need to constantly pester them for their time but take them out for a coffee maybe 4 – 5 times a year to ask them for advice, guidance and suggestions. You can get a coach or a personal trainer for your fitness, why not get someone to help you with your finances? I’m not talking about financial advisors either – they are good for different things but you want someone that is not tied to you in any financial way to provide you with advice – advice that you follow because that’s what they would do if it was their money.

Don’t try to get rich too quickly

I found myself smiling at this one and thought ‘who would actually slow down from getting rich?’ but the point that Richard is trying to make here is to slowly but surely build up your assets, establish different income streams and to diversify as much as possible. If you get rich too quickly, it might be because you put all of your eggs in one basket and gambled a bit and just as quickly as you built your wealth, you may lose it. Getting rich slowly can also help you learn as you go because not only do you need to learn how to make money, you also need to learn how to keep and grow your money.

Don’t ever believe you’re only worth what you’re being paid

Those who change jobs frequently often get a pay raise each time (and therefore get paid more than individuals who stay in their jobs for longer). This doesn’t mean to change jobs all the time but what it does mean is that if you are staying long term in a job, make sure you are getting commensurate raises from time to time because those around you (the market) is paying more for people like you. Remember that no company is ever going to pay more for anything than they really need to. Plus, if you think you are always worth more, it makes you ambitious, restless, and it will make you work harder to get what you really want (and deserve).

What are some of your rules of wealth? Do you agree or disagree? What are other books on wealth, financial management and money that you would recommend to me?